It's that point in the summer where it's so hot you stay inside all day and dress in jeans and bible paper thin camisoles and the air is heavy with summer storms then sun then haze then storm. But it clears for sunset almost every night and I'm lured out to the fire escape but sunset is bambi's bedtime so I steal glimpses over her still nursing head and pause a little longer when she says goodbye to the seagull mobile forever gazing at my favorite view. That lucky wooden bird. But not too long because if I hurry through the routine maybe I can catch those glows before they sink between the twin spires that used to mimic two other towers mere blocks away and now stand alone. They were there before and lasted longer and maybe my window is the only one that has this perfect framing view of them. I hope it clears tonight. I hate this thunder. I'm eating a little yellow tomato on top my eggs. I spent a little more for heirlooms... they don't compare to the soft, sweeter than fruit tomatoes from the Port Townsend Food Co-op. It's that point in summer when our trip home to Washington State, that thunderless state, is in the recent past. I'd skip it because a trip is hardly ordinary or empty hours but sitting in a storm darkened room on a summer afternoon looking at photos from a trip is very much an empty hour.

Four other babies just out of frame, splashing in flower filled garish blue wading pool, a line of black clothes drying just behind us (subtly glaring sign of New Yorkers visiting the farm), Sylvia Plath tossed beside us, Adrienne Rich shading my eyes, Gigi's perfect tan (she knows how to farm girl well), my camera at the ready (there's probably a better version of this shot waiting inside it now), the sound of their neighbor shooting (I have a phobia of thunder but I'd rather thunder than gunshots), the shade of one hundred fruit trees (not there but metaphorically)--proven by the taste of every fruit. "It actually smells like fruit. That's how you know it's good" -grandma lew, on the topic of her freshly picked plum.

Pizza in the estuary at change of tide, the omnipresent mountain peering over Vashon Island, a borrowed hat from a six year old niece, a flash of remembrance of how most of Washington is when a group of teenage/twenty year old white KP boys drinking beer under that bridge say loudly and intimately ("sound carries over water" -the constant refrain of my mom on our boat growing up and also they could reach out and touch me), "Ain't no Commies here!" as I paddled by on a borrowed paddleboard. I muttered, "Speak for your fucking self" then remembered my mom's refrain and the last night's gunshots and I was glad the tide was incoming.

I don't miss it. But I can still like that it was (is) my past.

Edit: the film versions :

 Pentax Spotmatic F, Fuji Superia 400 -- a swim in Washington Square Fountain, meeting with bookcart customer at Caffe Reggio, and the walk home from the Brooklyn Bridge 6 train.

These are from my first roll of film... I want to find a film that's better on bambi's skintones. I've been researching all morning. Laying on my bed in jeans and a black cami because the ac is cool enough for that. I'm surrounded by books that need cleaning and pricing and notebooks that need typed up and Susan Sontag's On Photography is propped up next to me... very unhelpful for the actual technical slew of things that I need to learn but beautiful meditation on the who and why of photography.

A synthetic cherry dress pulled off the goodwill rack in a desperate search for clothes for an uncharacteristic tropical vacation last January. It made Margot pause from her persistent pleads for raisins and gasp, "wooow" in the oddly lit dressing room so I decided that unknown fibers be damned, I want my daughter to think my clothes are cool. When the fire escape gets too hot during naptimes I retreat to just inside the window and it is my room of my own. Was reading: The Color Purple by Alice Walker. I wished it was longer.

note: synthetic cherry dress leads to near nooners as alternate naptime activities when Jesse doesn't have to get to the edit studio till 11.30

Yesterday was thirty years since the Tiananmen Square Massacre. As I looked out my windows, walked to the shop and to the playground I wondered how many of my neighbors are here because of it. 

- 4.06.19 Chinatown, NYC  

Sunday morning, smoothing her curls into layers of barrettes.

"Growing old... what is the opposite of "growing"? I ask myself. "Withering" perhaps? It is, I assume, quite easy to wither into old age, and hard to grow into it. .... Growing old is certainly far easier for people like me who have no job from which to retire at a given age. I can't stop doing what I have always done, trying to sort out and shape experience. The journal is a good way to do this at a less intense level than by creating a work of art as highly organized as a poem, for instance, or the sustained effort a novel requires. I find it wonderful to have a receptacle into which to pour vivid momentary insights, and a way of ordering day-to-day experience (as opposed to Maslow's "peak experiences," which would require poetry). If there is an art to the keeping of a journal intended for publication yet at the same time a very personal record, it maybe what E. Bowen said: "One must regard oneself impersonally as an instrument." May Sarton, The House by the Sea, p. 27-28

I think her conclusion falls flat... but I really do agree that there is "an art to the keeping of a journal intended for publication" or otherwise. Perhaps she unwittingly invented blogging in 1974.

I'm laying on Jesse's side of the bed, the window is cracked and the outside air is drifting around me. It's not even a breeze--just a cool, liquid softness, tripping over coldness. My chest has that heaviness from splitting two bottles of wine between three adults last night at our Tuesday night family dinner (Charlie brought a bottle with a mouse named Gertie on it). My toes are getting cold so I will get up soon to make a second mug of tea. But the sun flexing gently in a cover of clouds and a helicopter is hovering distantly and the hardware store across the street just lifted their screeching gate. Which means their fat cat ran eagerly to the door and is now getting fed. Someone is coughing mildly on the sidewalk four floors below. Its all mildly muted. I even vaguely have to sneeze. So vaguely.
Margot and I watched pigeons mating on the roof across the street earlier. Earlier today.
I'm vaguely researching a new to me writer. She wrote a perfectly named book : Novel on Yellow Paper". I found it at the Strand a few weeks ago and instantly wanted to buy a legal pad and write feverishly on a hot afternoon. But then there was a weird racial bit when I flipped through it so I didn't get it for the cart. I'm so afraid of inadvertently endorsing racism with an old book in the cart. In my research this morning it sounds like she publicly apologized and/or expressed regret for it. I suppose thats a good thing as long as people know the context. Mistakes out-grown and accounted for can only be a positive thing to witness. Mistakes out-grown.